Monday, 21 October 2013
What we pay, how we provide, social media and proving our worth!
Thursday, 23 May 2013
Autism and the question of gender, or can our girls have a good time too please!
When I started at Resources I was categorically told Autism is a 'male disorder'; it is 'at least 90% male'; that 'although there are some girls these are probably misdiagnosed'.....I took all those statements with a pinch of salt. It has always been clear to me that girls with a condition that manifests itself in 'different' behaviours are often viewed differently to boys. It is more acceptable for girls to be withdrawn and quiet, to be happy in a 'world of their own', to cry easily and become anxious. To diagnose girls seemed trickier. As the years have gone by the figures and the interest have changed. Slowly the statistics are becoming less stark. 90% has moved to 75% or even 60% depending on which bit of research you read but it is still the case that most of our girls find themselves in groups which are predominated by boys. That is particularly true for those girls attending special schools where a class may well consist of 8 or 9 boys and 1 girl.
Does this matter? Where we are trying to help our young people develop friendships then it probably does. Interests are different however hard we try to stop thinking in a gender stereotypical way. That does not mean they can't and shouldn't cross over but in reality they often don't. Being with someone who is 'like you' is reassuring and can help build confidence. At Resources we had a wonderful girls group a couple of years ago. It was very successful and the girls had a great time. However, it was an add on and we did not have the capacity to repeat it. This summer we are looking to do it again for some of our girls based in North London. It will be interesting to compare the groups and see how those girls in our mixed groups feel compared to those in a girls group and to get the staff to think about confidence and friendships in particular.
As autism is a lifelong condition this conundrum applies to our adults too. Women with autism face the same struggles as men but there is the added vulnerability of exploitation and abuse. At Resources we have seen several of our young adult women exploited by predatory older men and we are working on a social story book to help them think about appropriate behaviour and keeping safe but they also need to be independent and have a right to a sexual and emotional life as we all do. This is much more difficult for women to navigate and to get right as the risks are greater. Many of our young women desperately want to have children and there is a fear from some professionals that their autism means they will not make 'good' mothers. Can empathy be learned when it comes to your own child?
As with everything I look at in this area it appears that the answer is the very unhelpful 'it depends'. Just like those of us who are not on the spectrum every girl and every woman is different. Blanket statements are wrong and may lead to a great deal of unhappiness. We must give our girls and women as much choice as we can and as much information as they can absorb and allow them to make the same mistakes as our boys and men but we also need to make sure they are safe.
That most carers are female is not a new revelation but that too is a factor in this debate. I am regularly asked for male carers for our boys because their caring environment (mums, teachers and so on) are female and it is felt a male role model is important. Most of our befrienders are female and we struggle to get male volunteers. Caring and volunteering remain in the female domain, if a little less than a few years ago. My male staff are wonderful and we have worked hard to attract them and keep them but should we celebrate them more than my equally wonderful female staff? Mums still take the brunt of caring and I have mums in their 80's caring for men in their 40's and 50's. The world remains unfairly balanced and we need to find ways to redress and compensate for this.
I will leave the last word on this to Jean who is an adult with autism who volunteers with us. She says that when she was growing up she always felt like an outsider, she had no one to talk to about being a girl or a woman it was all about her 'problems'. She is now in a relationship and feels like she is an insider working at Resources but it took a long time to get there. 'Give us time and we can make the right decisions and get on with our lives' is her message. I hope that by giving some of our girls just a little time and space that is theirs we can help them understand themselves and gain in confidence to walk alongside our boys into an adult life that is fulfilling and hopefully accepting of them as they are.
If you expected to find a definitive answer to the gender question I am sorry to disappoint. I hope though it gives some food for thought and is a discussion that we can continue to have over time.
Please do feel free to comment, or share your views. It would be great to hear from you.
Tuesday, 19 March 2013
March 2013
The impact on us is huge as we have a tiny infrastructure in comparison to our service base. Despite this it is hard for us to compete in what is now described as a ‘market place’. I have real difficulty in using the language of commerce to describe services that I believe are essential to those with autism. For me, day to day support, activities that enhance life and enable independence, support for fragile families, tackling acute loneliness and isolation and enabling communication and social networks are not the same as choosing which computer to buy or where to go on holiday or if you can afford that new dress. They are a fundamental right for all of us and to describe them as products moves them from a ‘need’ to a ‘want’. Something that is necessary is quite different to something we can choose to have.
Choice is another buzz word and at risk of upsetting a lot of people I am most unhappy with it. If we were talking about a world of real choice where individuals had an infinite amount of options and an infinite amount of money to buy those options then there is choice. Choice is limited first and foremost by what is available and how much money families have. People need local, accessible services with qualified, experienced and consistent staff. They need that at a price that is affordable. We provide small, local and expert but the problem is that that can never be cheap. So how can I make the equation work? The dilemma is do I reduce quality to bring price down? Reduce the amount we do so we only serve those with money to fund it themselves? Or take the line that we will battle on for as long as we can but may have to close if we cannot do the right thing as a charity and provide for those most in need at a price they can afford and in the way that we believe best serves our community? These are questions without answers at the moment. Austerity really is very austere!
On a completely different note, April 2nd is World Autism Awareness Day. As stated by Ban Ki-mood Secretary-General of the United Nations:
Thursday, 11 October 2012
Autumn 2012 Roundup.
Perhaps the most significant thing that is about to happen is the new diagnostic criteria known as DSM-5. This is the first major change in the criteria for many years and is mostly very welcome. I say mostly because change usually involves some controversy and this is no exception. The best new element of the criteria is that, for the first time, sensory sensitivities become part of the recognised elements of autism. We all know how crucial an understanding of the sensory world of someone on the spectrum is in helping to improve their quality of life and yet this has never been 'officially' part of the diagnosis process. That has now changed. Aspergers will no longer be a category of diagnosis but just a 'level' of autism. There will be three levels or bands based on 'severity'. This worries me, not on a clinical front, but on how these might be used in a time of financial restraint and scarce resources. I am something of a cynic and worry that some services may become only accessible for those with level 1 autism or extremely high need. Judge for yourselves by taking a look at the new criteria at http://www.dsm5.org/proposedrevisions/pages/proposedrevision.aspx?rid=94.
With Mr Osborne talking about yet more cuts to 'welfare' I remain very concerned about funding our future. It is easy for people to miss the fact that this general term covers everything that impacts on the lives of those in our society who need help and support. That includes those with autism and everyone with any disability. There seems to be a great blurring of what 'welfare cuts' mean in reality to huge numbers of people. It is not just to do with benefits, although talk of cutting these even further is immensely worrying for many disabled and non-disabled people, but it is also about reducing funding for services. I have heard from all the local authorities who buy our services that they are likely to be forced to cut the level of provision in 2013/14. Their financial year begins in April, which is when contracts should be renewed, and all are saying they do not yet know what their budgets will be but it is likely to be slashed. Whereas personalisation should mean more choice, individual budgets generally have such low levels of funding and such variable funding depending on where you live that many families find themselves unable to 'choose' what they would like. If funding is not available then the choice will reduce further as organisations close. Worrying indeed!
The good news is that Resources for Autism continues to grow and to provide for more and more people. We were lucky enough to gain a West Midlands Lottery bid to enable us to extend our services to adults in Birmingham and to those living outside of the Birmingham City boundaries generally which is wonderful and our team in the West Midlands have jumped at the chance to extend and grow what we do. Also in Birmingham our first Under 8's service gained OFSTED accreditation and is going from strength to strength.
We held a pilot residential holiday break for young people with high needs over the summer, offering 2 nights at a youth hostel base with loads of activities. It was a great success but very expensive to run so we are looking at the lessons learned so we can do more and better in the future.
In London our adult services have more than doubled in size in the last 3 months with a new 'Au Struck' social group opening in Haringey, a confidence group developing in Islington, our 19 - 25 social group becoming more and more adventurous, so many multi-sports participants that we have had to split the group in two and a third adult art based social group about to open. The need for adults to have something fun, accepting and safe to take part in is evident in both London and Birmingham and we are rising to the challenge as best we can.
To round up, lots of positives, a bit of worry and a great deal to do. I will keep you posted and thank you for taking the time to read and to be interested in Resources for Autism. If you have any questions or suggestions, please do get in touch.
Wednesday, 14 December 2011
Winter 2011
With so much bleak financial and global news at the moment Resources for Autism appears to be bucking the trend in gloom and doom. Currently we are awash with words like ‘expansion’ and ‘extension’ and ‘increase in delivery’ and I am delighted that is the case. It is estimated that 1% of the entire population are on the Autistic Spectrum. That is a lot of people needing appropriate support and care. As an organisation we are committed to improving the quality of life for both our users and their families and it is only by providing high quality, local and accessible practical services that we can do so.
We have an astute group of Trustees who ensure that we do not over-reach ourselves despite increasing demand and their rule is that if we do not have the funding to run something for at least a year then it cannot start. That sometimes makes it hard to begin something new and innovative as services need to exist to prove they are effective. It is in those circumstances that we need imaginative funders who are prepared to take a risk and the Cinven Company Trust has done just that with our new Autism to Autism project. For two years they are going to be funding a new project that will support adults with a diagnosis of Autism or Aspergers Syndrome to help others on the spectrum as volunteers. I believe this project will do much more than it says on the tin. Giving adults with autism the opportunity to work, albeit voluntarily, in an environment that is relatively safe but that is part of the wider community, is the first step for many into the world of paid work. Some of our adults will always need support but this may be just having someone to check in with each week to gain reassurance or to intervene on their behalf if things are going awry but before they turn into a disaster. For many just gaining confidence and learning the rules that govern survival in a work environment will be enough and this project will give those skills. Cinven have taken a risk supporting us and we are going to make the very best use of their generosity to prove that adults with autism have a great deal to offer their community given the chance. One of our current volunteers who gives invaluable help to us three days a week says of her experience ‘‘All my life I have been on the outside looking in. Now I am content looking out and that would not of been possible without the kindness and understanding I have received from everyone at Resources for Autism’ She has a diagnosis of autism and has had really awful experiences of trying to work and hopefully her time with us is giving her the confidence to try again when she identify a suitable paid vacancy with an employer who is willing to make the very few adjustments necessary to make her comfortable in a work setting.
Another huge positive is the appointment of our new West Midlands Manager. Laky Sahota is a very experienced voluntary sector manager who is joining us to help develop our services in the West Midlands. He has many years experience in play and youth work settings including a long stint at managerial level with Play England. He has already brought energy and charm to our team and I have no doubt that his skills will see our services in the West Midlands continue to develop and thrive.
I am never complacent and I am aware that we have been extraordinarily lucky in weathering the external storms so far but I remain very positive about our future and there are three main reasons for my optimism.
- · I have a wonderful staff team who are well trained, well supported and full of compassion.
- · We provide services that people want and value and that meet our users needs.
- · We have your support!
I am always pleased to hear from you and if you do want to get in touch just email me at liza@resourcesforautism.org.uk
I hope the New Year brings you peace, happiness and good health.
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Monday, 31 October 2011
Autumn 2011
Halloween is also traditionally a time of taking stock. It is when people looked at what they had achieved over the bounteous spring and summer and how it would last them over the hard winter to come. Resources for Autism has been extremely lucky (or extremely well managed!) and have been successful at winning tenders for services, achieving positive results from carefully crafted lottery bids and generous grants from many Trusts and Foundations. However, we have to manage these with care and ensure that our funding lasts not just the winter but for the foreseeable future while we continue to try to find new and inspirational sources of money to enable us to provide the services our users want and deserve.
Amongst those services, we have just started an exciting women only adult group in partnership with Community Focus. Girls and women with autism often find themselves in groups dominated by boys and men as diagnosis is around 75% male. For some having contact with other girls and women can be reassuring and helpful and the group is creating a great deal of interest. Also new is our Autism to Autism volunteering project which is about to get off the ground. We have a number of volunteers who themselves have a diagnosis of autism or aspergers and who want to help others. They are excellent volunteers but often need just a little extra support and this project aims to ensure that support is available and that we can grow this project to attract more people with autism who would like to contribute to the world around them but are denied the possibility due to their difficulties.
Our West Midlands service is about to grow too and the summer seeds have been sown for this with a Reaching Communities grant from the Big Lottery and a new manger for the region about to be appointed. Resources for Autism has very few managers. Our aim is to spend every penny we get on front line services but those services do need someone to keep the wheels oiled and as it is now clear we are set to stay in the West Midlands and hopefully continue to grow what we do this seems a sensible move which will hopefully be cost effective in the long run.
So this Halloween finds me looking back over a successful summer and cautiously optimistic for the winter ahead. I don't feel too scared of the demons and devils out there but I am aware that wearing garlic round my neck and feeling hopeful is not enough and we must continue the hard work needed to offer the very best services we can for as many as we can while we look ahead for an even more fruitful spring and summer next year.
As always I welcome your comments and am always delighted to hear from anyone regarding what we do and how we do it. liza@resourcesforautism.org.uk
Very best wishes